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Relationship Coach Teaches How to Feel In Love Again

Jul 12th, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

You know that you love your partner, but don’t have those “in love” feelings anymore. You miss it and you want those feelings back. Some people are willing to have an affair to have those feelings–risking everything they have with their partner. Trying to fill one hole by taking dirt from somewhere [...]



Relationship Coach Advises Not to be Concerned with Husband’s Reaction to Change

Jul 4th, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

One of the reasons that wives hesitate to try new things in their relationship is for fear of how their husbands will react. If they do something and their husbands get upset, they conclude they did the wrong thing. If their husbands are pleased they believe they are doing the right thing. [...]



Relationship Advice: How To Improve Your Relationship Even if Your Partner Doesn’t Want To

Jul 3rd, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Many people feel like their relationship with their partner or spouse is stuck in neutral and going nowhere fast. They think to themselves that if only their partner would work a little on the relationship, it could be much better for the both of them. But, their partner either denies that there are [...]



Relationship Advice for Married Men and Women Who Feel Like They Have Become Roommates

Jul 1st, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married? You are not alone. When a relationship starts out, both men and women are interested in making a good impression, getting a positive response, having a good time, and increasing intimacy. The relationship [...]



Relationship Advice For Overcoming Jealousy

Jun 28th, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Relationship coaches tell us that Jealousy is related to two emotions–fear and anger. Fear of losing what we have and anger at whoever seems to be threatening to take it from us. In a society such as ours where the opportunity for cheating is ever present, it is jealous behavior which is the biggest threat [...]



Lessons from a Relationship Coach: Recovering From Conflict

Jun 25th, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Arguing, fighting, and withdrawing all have the effect of creating emotional distance. Sadness and anger maintain the distance. If more conflict occurs before these feelings can be resolved, the relationship progressively gets worse and may end.
The following relationship advice can help you to minimize the damage of conflict [...]



Lessons from a Relationship Coach: Talking to a Withdrawn or Sullen Husband

Jun 23rd, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Have you ever been frustrated in your relationship because your husband got upset and emotionally shut down? Maybe you were misunderstood or spoke out at a time when you didn’t have good control of your own emotions. The more this pattern repeats, the more damage will be done to the relationship.
Today, [...]



10 Surefire Ways to Kill a Relationship

Jun 13th, 2008 | By jackito | Category: Marriage

Every action we take either pulls our partners closer to us or pushes them further away. Relationships end when so much distance is created that there is not enough motivation to bring them back together.
Relationship coaches recommend avoiding these 10 behaviors if you want to have a great relationship:
1. Blaming your partner. [...]